The truth of life is that in most cases there are the people
around us that make us inexpressibly happy. Sure, it’s our family and those
people who understand and accept us no matter what. They all are close to and
very dear to our heart so spending time with them always makes us extremely
happy.
But apart from that any person that you happen to meet on your way makes
their own contribution to your happiness without even knowing that. So in order
to enjoy all the colors of your happiness you need to have various types of
people in your life.
1. Role
model
It is great to have a person in your life who would be a
role model for you so that you keep improving yourself. I’m not saying about
jealousy, by no means. You just know a person who is, to your mind, really
awesome and you want to have some features of character or some life principles
you would also like to have. This is a good motive to be more professional at
what you do, look after yourself better, start taking dancing classes or
whatever.
2. The
one to encourage
There are such special people that inspire and encourage us
to live our lives to the fullest. If you are lucky to have your encourager than
you will always know how special, strong, beautiful and just amazing you are.
Such people make us move forward, reach goals and fight for our dreams.
3. Your
any time rescue
It is the most precious feeling when you know that there is
a person (or few) who will come to help no matter what. The situation may be of
any type but the point is that you don’t feel awkward calling them and asking
to give you a ride because your car went broken. Most probably you will be
lectured on how great it is to have you as a friend (jokingly, of course) but
you will be safely brought home. And next time when something goes wrong you
won’t get a refuse either. And I’m sure you will be ready to act the same in
return.
4. Good
listener
As a flood of problems and worries catches you up, sometimes
it is the best remedy to talk to someone who would hear you out. You don’t need
any advice or help, just to talk to that person and not to see judgment in
their eyes. If you have such a person, you have to value them.
5. A
soul mate
My experience and observations show that as a rule each
person has only one soul mate, though having numerous friends apart from them.
A soul mate is more than just a friend, this person understands all your
feelings and thoughts no matter how confusing they may sound to others.
Actually, you would voice them only to your soul mate, wouldn’t you? You may
relax and be yourself in their presence, silence is never a burden when you are
together and this is just fantastic.
6. The
big brother
Every woman is to have a man friend in her life which would
mean friendship only without romantic feelings from each side. The stereotype
persuades us that friendship between a man and woman doesn’t exist so you may
try to prove it wrong. It is a very nice feeling to know that he will protect
you as if your elder brother and you can always have a sincere conversation together
finding out more about male and female nature.
7. A
man of wisdom
You have many really smart people around you but it is not
an easy task to find a wise person. This is not about age, position or amount
of misfortunes gone through, this is an ability to give a good advice which you
would really take into consideration or follow. If you find such a person this
means that your vision of life and life principles coincide and you will surely
go through any challenge that stands in your way together.
8. Who
keeps you accountable
Don’t confuse it with the person who usually encourages you.
You share your goals and dreams with each other, build plans and discuss the
possibilities. Once in a while you meet or have a phone conversation inquiring
about the progress. This is also a kind of motivation for you to go on and make
progress.
9.
Having common career
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