As
we know life is full of challenges and in certain times you will experience
where you will find yourself extremity in need of learning new art.
Some
parents develop negative beliefs in children from their childhood as “you can’t
come through at something without being skilled” without knowing the truth that
any ark can be obtained if the person tries hard enough.
Of
course some people might begin their lives with a certain advantage but this
doesn't mean that a person who starts from blemish and who works hard can't be
as skilled as those people who had this advantage.
How to develop the skill for swimming.
Swimming
is not a ordinary task. . I have never tried to swim in a efficient way until i
was compelled to swim because of a back injury that i had.
I went to the pool for the first time and i
started observing the people who were swimming around me. Few moments after i
gave it a try but i found it extremely hard to adjust my breath. I used to
drink the pool's water by mistake because i used to open my mouth in the wrong
time.
I
went home feeling debilitated. Now if a person who had incorrect beliefs about
studying new skills was in my place he might have gave up swimming because of
believing that he is not skilled. The only difference between me and that
person is that while we both knew that we were not skilled i knew that i can
become skilled if i kept trying.
The
next time i went to swim i drank less pool's water and i learned how to take
the breath in the right time. When i went to the pool for the third time i saw
a coach saying small kids how to swim so i started watching him and i learned
the right way to move my arm. I kept trying and trying but i didn't manage to
do it correctly that day.
The
next time i went to swim i managed to alter the action of my arms a little
more.
I
felt more self-assured because i found that I was on my way to study how to
swim skilfully. The next day i met a friend who used to swim often so i started
asking her for tips and she told me two more things to do.
I
do the things wrong continuously, taking the feedback from people and using the
tips until i was professional in swimming.
How to Study any skill?
The
way for studying any new skill is very simple. You just need to keep trying
while learning from your omissions. You can observe people who experienced this
skill you want to study, hunt for help online or ask for skillful help each
time you find yourself making problems.
By
time you will find that you have experienced this skill that sounded hard in
the beginning.
Here
are the logic's:
1)
They feel ashamed: In the stable self-assurance program i said that people who
feel lesser and those who have wrong thoughts about making problems think that
they must always be perfect at anything they do even if it was the first time
for them to do it. Those people will avoid studying a new skill simply because
they don't want others to see them doing poorly!
2)
They have negative thoughts about life: Some people were brought up to believe
in the skill parable. Those people believe that the skilled ones are those who
were constitutional with certain heredity and not those who tried hard until
they mastered their skills
3)
Not sympathetic how success works: Success is all about going from one
bankruptcy to another until you learn the right way that works. I did tens of
problems while trying to learn swimming but as the time passed i learned how to
avoid them one by one and i managed to swim well
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