Firstly known about the
reversal psychology
Reversal
psychology is to drive someone to do the exactly opposite of it.
For
suppose tell to your friend “You can’t reach before 6” might drive him to do
the opposite just to make you wrong.
Reversal
psychology is a deadly weapon because the person may not believe you again if
they realized that you were making to manipulate them. So reversal psychology
must be applied on conscious mind of a person not on the subconscious mind.
So reversal psychology must be used properly
1)
Try to make the person trust your words
2)
Try to make him understand you were not saying to motivate him.
When
reversal psychology can be used?
For
example a student gets low grades, tell him like “You never will get better
grades” this may decrease his self confidence, and make him to obey that its
really impossible and develop a negative belief in his mind which affects his
nature.
And
next if you kept telling someone that he is atrocious or deceitful you might
program his mind to obey that these trick are parts of his personality and that
he can’t do any better.
Reversal
psychology is only used to reach his goals by knowing the actions of a person
that you want him to reach. In the above example the correct way to motivate
the child to get high grades can be done simply because he can study if he
wanted but getting high grades is subject to many other factors other than
studying.
Tell
him something like “I odds you can never complete your work tonight” is better
than telling him “you will never get good grades”
How to apply reversal
psychology on people?
Every
person may not react to reversal psychology, for suppose, who doesn't have self
confidence might actually take your crushing statements and make from them new
limiting thoughts that makes them come up with even worse.
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