5 Easy Tips to Ignore Haters
Some Best ways to Ignore Haters
How To Ignore Haters
There are haters out there in the world and there’s nothing
we can do about them. There will always be negative people who want to
criticize and bring us down, and if we let them, they can succeed. Here’s how
to rise above it and ignore the haters:
1. Focus
in.
When you start getting wrapped up in what other people are thinking about you,
reel it in and focus your thoughts inward. Pretend that you have blinders on,
like a racehorse, and start to block out external forces. Remind yourself that
you are doing things for you, not to impress other people. Think about your
goals and what you want out of your life and keep your focus going forward.
Think about how you want to feel when you achieve your goals and use that as a
focal point for moving forward and ignoring criticism.
2. Don’t
take it personally. Haters are always going to be haters – it’s
just their way of dealing with the world. Some people feel insecure about
themselves or threatened by other successful people and find it easier to
criticize them or to be negative. These people likely hate on everyone around
them, not just on you. Understanding where they are coming from helps you to
realize that it’s not really about you. When you know it’s not personal you’ll
have an easier time ignoring it.
3. Listen
to your fans. Turn up the volume on the positive comments in
your life. There are likely lots of people, like your friends and family, who
think you are awesome. They probably have lots of words of encouragement, which
we often ignore or dismiss. Now is the time to pay more attention to their
praise and hold on to it. Maybe even write a few of their compliments down and
keep them where you can see them, as a reminder that for every hater you have
there are lots of people who love and support you.
4. Haters
are temporary. Don’t shy away from an opportunity or miss out
on doing something because you’re worried about criticism. In 5 or 10 years
from now, or even next week or next month, those people probably won’t be
around and what they thought won’t matter. You’ll be left with regrets for
letting them rain on your parade and for having missed out. Instead, understand
that haters are temporary and that what’s most important is that you pursue
your life with happiness and positivity. That’s what you’ll carry forward with you,
not their negative attitudes.
5. Focus
on the big picture. What do you want in life? What are your big
goals and life’s dreams? When you think of the big picture of what you want and
how you want your life to look, the haters will seem tiny and insignificant.
Sure, they might really get to you right now, but in the long term they don’t
have anything to do with your goals and your life. Ignore them now by reminding
yourself of your big picture goals and plans for your life.
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