How does a wall, without being coated with paint
look like? It is naked, raw, shows all its ugly internal parts (bricks, sand
and cement). It is only when you’ll paint it; you can enjoy the beauty of the
wall. The above example is the correct metaphor for the topic that I am gonna talk about now.
No, No
your guess is wrong. I am not gonna talk about the animal, sexual instincts of
us. We, everyday see tons of over weighed love messages in face book or in any
social network sites. They are too emotional, sensual, heart melting sometimes.
Messages like: ‘’ I can’t see a little amount of sand hurting my girl’s feet.
‘’, ‘’ Film making is the only essence of my life. I will die if I’ll off
myself a week from watching films ‘’ ,
‘’ My best friend knows all my secrets. I value him more than myself. ‘’ etc., Are
these statements real truths?
Obsession has a different psychology. After all
there should be a certain limit to our affection. If it exceeds that limit,
obsessive nature raises which is not good for the mental health of both the
obsessive nature guy and the one who is being suffering from that obsessive
guy’s obsession on him/her/it.
Hero Ram
Charan Tej(one of the top hero in tollywood,india) was once obsessed with his dog named brad. He even couldn't see it
feeling sick or something. He said: ‘’ Even when I was in shoot… I used to
think much about my pet dog Brad. How was it feeling in home? Did it eat
anything or not? I might cry if I see it feeling sick when I suddenly glance at
it. ‘’ After some days it died in a road accident, he got depressed and his
wife bought him another dog with same name.... well, that is another story.
Perhaps he had a statement in his mind like: ‘’ this
dog is my world. ‘’
Sometimes we consciously fake ourselves with
these statements, sometimes our sub-conscious
does so.
For Example: we see a beautiful girl, some where
the vibes start. And then, we immediately start giving ourselves a statement: ‘’
How about living my whole life with this girl? Its heaven. I am born for her.
’’ Here we are consciously faking ourselves to get motivation to go forth with
this stuff.
And your sub-conscious comes with another trick.
Once your obsession is already started, then if you wanna really get out from
it, your sub-conscious comes with same kind of statements. For Ex, once you are
obsessed with your pet, even if you don’t wanna care for it, focusing on some
other things in your life, your sub-conscious forms incredible guilty in you
saying: ‘’ what are you? A devil? There your pet is dying for your caring. Go
love her!! ‘’
Your sub-conscious mind is 100% emotional and it
doesn't care logic, it is not its duty to care for the logic. It needs an ideal,
emotional life so it wants you to concentrate on ideal relationships, ideal
professions and all ideal things to have ideal happiness in your life.
So, it motivates you to thinking ideally about
your relationships and the above mentioned things once it gets an emotional
start. The term Ideal is very subjective to your sub-conscious. Mostly it is
been influenced with surroundings especially, with cinema. Because such kind of
emotional, strong relations can be seen in films only. Don’t you need a strong
friendship like Jai and Veeru have in Sholay? You may not consciously aware of
these filmy influences but how can your sub-conscious get the awareness of
these ideal things? And there might be some other factors to influence your
sub-conscious. One who is obsessed with his/her pet is actually having some
emptiness in life. He/She starts seeing their lives in their pets to fill that
emptiness.
Whether your obsession works good or not, it is
out of topic here. But what a star hero is in form can get with his dog
obsession? Obsession with your work only if it useful and legal works well in
realistic life.
Author: Harish
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