You broke up, you regret it and now you
want them back. What to do? Here are 10 tips for how to get him/her back:
1. Initiate
friendly contact. If you haven’t stayed in touch
much after breaking up, its time to start talking again and getting back into
their life. Start small with friendly gestures and conversations. Tell them
that you’ve missed them and show that you care by asking how they are doing.
2. Figure out
what the problem was and apologize. If you don’t
already know what the main reason was for your breakup, figure it out. If you
were at fault, apologize to him or her. Don’t make excuses or justify your
actions, simply let them know how truly sorry you are.
3. Show that
you’ve changed. Don’t rely on your words to demonstrate
how sorry you are. Use your actions to show them that you’ve changed. If they
can actually see positive changes in you, they’ll be more open to the idea of
getting back together.
4. Remember the
good memories. Help them to remember the good times
that you had together. Reminisce and talk about all of the fun you had
together. Don’t focus on the problems.
5. Recreate a
special moment. Recreate your first date or first kiss
or another special moment. It’s a totally romantic and thoughtful gesture that
will impress them and show them how much you care.
6. Make them
feel special. You have to make them want to get back
together with you just as much as you want to get back together with them. Show
them how much you care by making them feel appreciated and special. Thoughtful
gestures, compliments, etc. will show them how much you adore them.
7. Sustain good
behavior. Don’t just pour on the charm while
you’re trying to win them back and then revert to your old ways. You have to
keep up your good behavior if you want them to stay.
8. Tell them how
it felt to lose them. Let them see how sad you were by
the breakup and how awful you felt without them. Showing how much you missed
them will demonstrate how much you care.
9. Accept that
it may not work. No matter how hard you try, it
might simply be over. They might not be willing to try again, which you’ll have
to accept.
10. Put it all on the line. When you’re trying to win them back you need to really go for it. This
isn’t the time to hold back or play it cool. Put your heart out there and lay
it all on the line. It’s time for a grand gesture to either make it or break
it. Show them that you’re willing to take a risk and put yourself out there for
them.
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