You might really like you boyfriend or girlfriend but how
do you know if it’s more than that? Here are some clues to tell if they are
“the one”?
A1. You still
get excited to see them. Even if you’ve been together for a long time, if you
still get butterflies or excited at the thought of seeing them, it’s safe to
say that you have something special.
A2. You picture
them when you think of your future. Everyone daydreams of their future life –
maybe your wedding, your dream home, kids or travel. Do you picture a generic
face along with you or do you picture your boyfriend/girlfriend when you
imagine your future? If they have already become part of your future there
could be a real possibility that they’ll actually be part of it.
A3. You don’t
have to be perfect around them. And they don’t have to be perfect around you
and it’s ok. Sure, you want to impress them, but you can also be yourself and
let your guard down. Being comfortable enough to do this and still like each
other is a sign that you have a close connection.
A4. Your friends
and family like them (and visa versa). It’s not essential to the success of a
relationship, but it sure helps when your friends and family support your
decision to be with him/her. You know that you’re on the right track with
someone who is right for you when everyone around you approves.
A5. They are the
first person that you want to talk to. When something good or bad happens, when
you are struck with a hilarious thought, etc. they should be the one that
you’re calling or rushing to tell if they are “the one”.
A6. You have fun
even when you’re doing boring stuff. Helping his Grandma clean out her attic or
going to her family reunion is fun when you’re with the right person, because
you’re just happy to be together. You don’t need flashy dates and parties to
have a good time. You’re just happy spending time together.
A7. You still
want to impress them. Even though you can be comfortable around each other, do
you still strive to catch their eye or impress them with your jokes, ideas and
accomplishments? If they are “the one” they should be your biggest fan and that
probably feels so great that you love finding new ways of impressing them and
keeping their adoration coming.
A8. You can just
“be”. You don’t have to entertain each other or be doing specific activities at
all times. It’s great when you can just spend a lazy afternoon lying on a
blanket in the park just doing nothing but spending time together.
A9. You can tell
them anything. Revealing your true feelings isn’t scary when you’re with the
right person. In fact, you should look forward to talking and confiding in
them. They know you inside and out and you know them the same way.
A10. You can’t imagine being with anyone else. Not only
do you picture his or her face in your future, but the idea of anyone else
being your partner seems totally absurd. You can’t imagine life without them or
someone else in their place.
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