How the words of People Reflect Their Personalities
Everything a person says or does reveals something about
his personality. People's thoughts, beliefs and actions are perfectly aligned
with each other in such a way that they all reveal the same things about the
person.
Just like all ways lead to Rome everything a person does
or thinks about can reveal a lot about his personality and psychological
makeup.
The words a person use, even if they seemed to have no
weight can, actually tell a great deal about his desires and insecurities. In
this post i will tell you how to interpret the words people say in order to
know more about their personalities.
How
the words people say reflect their personalities
"Hey Dude, did you get shorter overnight?"
For the first instance this seems like a joke that has no
meaning but when examining it from a different point of view you will realize
that it means a lot. I have said earlier that our perception is strongly
constrained by our concerns.
If you think about dogs all day, because you fear them,
then you might confuse a cat for a dog. In other words we only notice what we
care about the most. Now back to that simple joke, even though the person who
said it meant nothing its clearly evident that he is concerned about his own
physical height.
I am not saying that this person is concerned about
physical height because of the phrase he said but rather because he noticed the
difference in the physical height of his friend when he was wearing a different
shoe.
This person could also be concerned about his physical
appearance and could even be suffering from a low self confidence just because
he is unsure of his looks.
Of course the analysis might be wrong as there are many
other factors that should be taken into consideration but that was just a
simple example to show you how you can know more about people by just analyzing
their words.
How
the words people say reveal their insecurities
We were in the gym and two people who didn't knew each
other were lifting different weighs while standing side by side. A third person
who doesn't know both of them said in a low voice "You guys are standing
too close to each other, take care not to get hurt"
The distance between the two guys wasn't that close to
result in the accident that person imagined and this showed that his perception
forced him to believe that the situation is more dangerous than its really is.
Most probably that person is of the worrying type and
because of his worries his perception exaggerates the probability of potential
threats.
Most probably that's the type of person who will become
paralyzed when he faces a major problems because of the negative scenarios that
will come to his mind.
Whatever
you say shows who you are
Each and every word a person says shows something about
his deep needs and insecurities even if he had different intentions in mind
when he said them.
A person might say a joke just to make his friends laugh
but without realizing the words that he used can reveal a lot about his
personality to the one who will analyze them.
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