How to be Genuine in Relationships
A1. Listen carefully when others are speaking. Give them
your full and undivided attention. And really listen when other people are
speaking: don’t just act as if you’re interested in them.
A2. If you say or do something that’s inept or stupid,
then be the first to laugh at yourself. Also, don’t blame others if you do
something wrong – you’ll be much more respected if you say that it was
you.
A3. Be quick to
notice and to show appreciation for other people, and what they do for you.
Also, notice their successes and the things that they do well, and praise them
openly, so others know as well. (But don’t usually flattery as it sounds
insincere.)
A4. Be honest (but tactful) when you’re asked for your
opinion. That sends the message that you usually speak the truth.
A5. Look for ways that you can help other people, as
genuine people are sensitive and caring. As a side effect, it will likely boost
your mood – and others will be drawn by your inner happiness.
A6. Try to be as natural as you can when you’re with
others. Just be “you”. Don’t put on a false self and try to be someone you’re
not. Accept your flaws and imperfections – as everyone has them anyway!
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