Do you think you are Unattractive?
Your beliefs about attractiveness determine how you see yourself
If that man were to correct his false beliefs about how
attraction happens then he would have realized that he posses the traits that
appeals to most women and so he would have been more confident around them.
Your beliefs about attractiveness determine how you see yourself
Why do some attractive people believe that they are
unattractive?
And why do some average looking people have more
confidence than others who look more attractive than them?
In order to know the answer to this question you first
need to know how a person judges his own attractiveness.
The
way a person judges his overall attractiveness depends on two factors which
are:
1) His beliefs about how attraction works
2) His resources (including his physcial looks)
Lets suppose that a woman had a low waist to hip ratio
and a full lips (two factors which can attract most men) dislikes the way her
nose looks like.
Now if that woman believes that a slightly big nose can
turn men off, which is a false belief about the psychology of attraction, then
she will believe that she is not attractive and she wont feel confident around
men.
why
do some people believe that they are unattractive or even ugly
Here is another example, if a dominant alpha male, who is
both popular and rich had average looks and if in the same time he believed
that women care about facial attractiveness the most then most probably he
won't feel confident around women.
If that man were to correct his false beliefs about how
attraction happens then he would have realized that he posses the traits that
appeals to most women and so he would have been more confident around them.
In other words, the beliefs a person has about the
psychology of attraction strongly affects the way he perceives his own
attractiveness.
These facts won't have led to any problems if most people
got the psychology of attraction correctly but the truth is that the majority
of people are completely uneducated about such an important topic.
If you don't believe that you are attractive or if you
think that you are not desirable then its time to know more about the way
attraction works for you can find yourself much more attractive than you
believed you are.
If
you believed you are attractive you will become attractive
Many studies were carried out to find out whether
perceived self worth affects the attractiveness of a person or not and they all
came up with the same conclusion:
People who believed that they are attractive were
actually found to be more attractive than those who believed that they are not
attractive.
In other words, when you fix your beliefs about the
psychology of attraction you won't just be fixing your self view but you will
also become more desirable to the opposite sex.
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