Best way to Motivate People using our Speech.
Motivation everyone one need this?
Have you tried to motivate you friend or yourself but you can’t succeed fully then don’t worry here are some amazing techniques to motivate you friends using Psychology.
Motivation everyone one need this?
Have you tried to motivate you friend or yourself but you can’t succeed fully then don’t worry here are some amazing techniques to motivate you friends using Psychology.
How
many times you needed motivation but didn't find it?
How many times you were in desperate need of motivation
but didn't manage to find it?
How many times you couldn't help a close relative pull
himself together with your words?
How many times you failed to get up after you fell??
Many people mistakenly think that the ability to motivate
themselves and others depends on charisma, language fluency or even the choice
of words but that's only a part of the story.
While all of these skills will certainly help still they
can be totally useless if you didn't understand the psychology of motivation
and how the human mind works.
Consider the person who's down an electrical device that
has a problem. If you pushed the right buttons that device will work perfectly
but if you pushed the wrong ones, even if your intentions were good, then it
won't work.
Motivating a person works the same way exactly, you first
need to find out where the right buttons are then you should push them.
The
right way to give a motivational speech
1)
Understand the person's belief system: The biggest mistake people
do when trying to motivate others is that they start talking right away before
hearing the person who needs motivation. Let that person talk, understand the
situation from his own point of view, get to know more about his beliefs, find
out the negative beliefs he has, know why he believes that he is stuck, find
out the things he believes in the most and find out the solutions he believes
might work
2)
Use his own beliefs to motivate him: Lets suppose you discovered
that this person believes in God. In such a case the best way to motivate him
is to tell him that God will help him. This will work because your words will
resonate with his own beliefs. You will be able to motivate a person if your
words matched his beliefs about life. Now compare this to telling a hopeless
person that he must be positive, the first thing that will come to his mind is
, why should i be positive?
3)
Use his own points of strength to motivate him:
Find out what this person likes about himself. Does he believe that he is
resilient? If you found so then telling him something like "Any person
could fall and not get up except you, you are the kind of person who always
gets up". Now such a phrase will motivate that person so much if he really
believed he was resilient. Don't try to force an identity over a person if he
doesn't believe in it. If a person doesn't think that he is creative then don't
tell him "Cmon, i am sure you can find a creative solution" because
such a statement will make him feel worse
4)
Use his dreams and his fears to motivate him: Lets suppose this
person really wants to be rich and fears ending up like a loser. In such a case
a phrase like "Now you have the choice of remaining where you are,
spending the rest of your life unable to look at your face in the mirror or you
can chose to fight for the dreams you always believed in until you make them
true. You can spend the rest of your life unable to pay your bills or you can
become one of those millionaires you always wanted to be like". You can chose
to remain in hell or you can climb out of hell" will have a very powerful
impact on him
5)
Use more powerful words as you progress: In order for your words to
touch a person they need to resonate with his current emotions. You can't tell
a person who is severely depressed "Cmon you can do it" but you first
need to start saying words that resonate with his feelings then slowly change
his emotions to a new state that will enable him to receive more positive words
from you. Here is an example "I know you are feeling down and i know how
hard it is to find yourself in such a situation but on the other hand i know
you are not the kind of person who gives up that easily (provided that he
believes that he doesn't give up easily". After his mood changes a bit you
can then use more motivating words like "If you never gave up before then
why did you chose today to give it all away!"
Motivating
yourself with a motivational speech
Do you know that its easier to motivate yourself using a
motivational speech than to motivate someone else?
After all you know your strengths very well, you know
what you believe in and you understand what makes you tick.
If you are too down to talk to yourself in a positive way
then go for online motivational videos. Make sure you only watch the ones that
resemble your current situation.
For example if you believed that you are a strong person
but in the same time you were feeling so down then Al Pacino's Inspirational
Speech will do magic to you. Check it out:
Image source: http://www.sxc.hu/photo/1382970
Psychtronics.com gives the only interesting topics of
psychology and you need not to be a professional to understand the articles in
the psychtronics. They are easy to understand to every one and it is mainly for
the college students and Psychiatrists.
Like us in FB to get Updates:
www.facebook.com/psychtronics
Follow us in twitter: www.twitter.com/psychtronics
Post a Comment