1. To have a friend we must be a friend. So, start by
considering the type of friend you are to others. Ask yourself, are you kind,
loyal, warm, understanding, sensitive, forgiving, helpful, reliable and so on?
2. Think about what you want in a friend. What kinds of
traits are important to you?
3. Create opportunities to get to know others better. For
example, go to parties and social events (and when you are there introduce
yourself to others); invite others over to your house, or out to the cinema
with you.
4. Initially,
stick to safe superficial topics. However, your friendships will never be
meaningful if they stay at that level. Hence, ask others about their plans for
the future, their likes and dislikes, their views on different subjects, and so
on. At the same time, be open and share more about yourself as well.
5. Focus on positives, and building others up. We all
have flaws so try to overlook and ignore those wherever possible. Also, don’t
be negative, critical, or complain all the time.
6. Follow up on friendships. Don’t wait months before
contacting someone again.
7. Be there for others when they are feeling down or when
things are tough. Focus on being sensitive, caring and understanding.
8. Notice, and congratulate others for their successes.
Be genuinely pleased for them.
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