13 Interesting Psychology Tricks That You Need To Know
Psychology Tricks that will make your life easier
13 Useful Psychology Tricks That You Need To Know
1. To
find out if a person likes you, pick a word and every time he/she
uses this word or synonymous word phrases, nod and smile. If he/she does like
you, watch him/her start using the word all the time.
2. Do
you want people to take your words seriously? Every time you tell
them something, say that your father taught you this. People tend to believe
parents’ advice inherently.
3.
Become an ultimate ‘Rock, paper, scissors’ champion! To win
at the ‘Rock, Paper, Scissors’ game, right before playing it, ask your opponent
a random question. Most of the time your confused friend will throw ‘scissors.’
4. If
you want people to agree with you, just nod while you’re talking.
‘The nod’ sign means ‘everything I’m saying is true.’ Plus, following social
behavior patterns, people tend to nod back.
5. Have
you ever wished the subway wasn’t that crowded in the morning? In
crowded places look right in front of you, in the direction in which you’re
going. You will be impressed watching the crowd literally give way to you. This
trick is very easy to explain: in crowded places we tend to look other people
in the eyes so that we know which direction someone is going. We take the
opposite way so not to run into each other.
6. If a
certain song is stuck in your head and you would love to forget it, try to
think of the end of the song. According to the Zeigarnik effect, our brain
tends to remember the things that we’ve left unfinished. So if you think of the
end of the annoying earworm, you will be able to get it out of your head.
7. Want your kids to eat broccoli? Go ahead and ask them if
they want two or five stalks of broccoli instead of asking them if they want
broccoli. Thus, you’ve made your mind
and chose broccoli for their lunch, but
they feel like they have really made their own decision. You can use the
same old trick in different situations.
8. If
you have the feeling that someone is watching you, just
yawn and look around. If someone is really stalking you, they will yawn too,
since yawning is highly contagious.
9. Your
friend will most likely help you carry, let’s say, a box of your stuff if you continue talking while
handing over the box. The majority of people won’t even notice you’re handing
them something and will take it. However, some people more attentive and less
close to you may get pretty confused.
10. If
you know you’re going to shake hands with someone, make
sure your hands are warm enough. Warm hands promote a friendly atmosphere while
cold handshaking will trigger the opposite effect.
11.
Whatever your friend has just said, paraphrase it and say it
again. The person who talks to you will subconsciously get the feeling you are
a really great listener. Just don’t go too far with the paraphrasing thing.
12. If
you want someone to help you, start your phrase with the
words ‘I need your help…’ People hate feeling guilty and that’s why they won’t
be able to refuse to help.
13. If
you believe a person doesn’t like you, ask if you can borrow his
pencil or pen. On one hand, people tend not to help those whom they don’t like,
but on the other hand, it’s such a small favor that your ‘hater’ most likely
won’t be able to say ‘No’. Eventually he will come to the conclusion that
you’re not that bad.
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