People who are successful in creating a life that’s full of
happiness have one simple quality in common: They’re courageous. They’re
willing to push through the fear, push through the self-doubt, and go after the
things they really want.
1. Quit listening to the people who always complain, but never take
action.
These are not the people who exhibit the courage to create
change. Instead, be around the change-makers, the ones who are making things
happen in their lives. These are the people who will inspire you to live more
courageously because they are too!
2.
Recognize that self-doubt is a normal experience.
Self-doubt doesn't imply an inability to be courageous. Any
time we go in a new direction, self-doubt will rear its head. We don’t have a
lot of experience to go on to form a realistic hypothesis on how well we’ll do.
My advice: do it anyway. Self-doubt will always be there to deter you. Don’t
give it more power than it already has.
3. Read
books that inspire you.
Fill your Facebook feed with people who motivate you. Have
discussions with those who are going after their dreams. Follow people who have
begun to create a sense of happiness in their own lives. We want to fill our
cup intentionally with positivity because this boosts our mood.
Having courage is tough as it is. It’s easier to be
courageous when we’re feeling good about ourselves and have a little boost of
confidence. Intentionally bring things into your awareness that boost this
experience.
4. Know
you’ll be OK even if you fail.
There’s a quote I live by that “No one ever really fails.
They simply quit.” Courage is moving forward when there are no guarantees.
Courage is going after your dreams even though there’s a chance they won’t be
realized. Courage is knowing deep within yourself that no matter what happens,
you’ll pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and keep moving. There will be plenty
of reasons to quit your purpose along the way. I promise. But if you feel it’s
your destiny to realize your dream, then keep going!
5.
Practice vulnerability.
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