Stunning Difference Between Healthy Love and Unhealthy Love

Friday, 6 June 2014 0 comments

First, I believe there are two types of love: healthy and unhealthy.


Unhealthy love
  • It is being powerless, selfish and enabling. It has no boundaries.
  • Unhealthy love is unconditional and yet contingent. It is immature, irresponsible and dependent. Unhealthy love is urgent.
  • There is a desperation behind it which produces manipulation and compromise of self. 
  • Unhealthy love is a pissing contest, a tug of war, a mute silence and a kick stand. It is obvious.
  • Unhealthy love promotes the false self and stunts growth. It is a drug.

Healthy love
  • It  is a choice. It is something you decide to give as a gift.
  • It has conditions that shape the self and strengthen the other. Healthy love is feeling powerful and independent.
  • It is grilled cheese and vegetable soup on a rainy day but not every day. Healthy love is patient, kind and accepting.
  • Healthy love requires a tremendous amount of responsibility which involves communication on all levels and constant reflection. I
  • t is building trust, having faith and holding a commitment. Healthy love promotes growth and two strong containers.
  • Healthy love is rare.

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