Moving on and letting go often has nothing to do with
weakness, but everything to do with strength. When you finally realize your
worth, you'll walk away from your past, people, habits and choices that don't
serve you.
It's your self-beliefs and thoughts that determine what and
who you attract into your life. If your relationships fill your heart with pain
and you are being mistreated and disrespected, it’s time to tap into what’s going
on within. When you do the internal work and reconnect with your true self,
your self-worth will begin to rebuild and you'll be reminded that you deserve
love and kindness.
Relationships shouldn't make you feel broken, beaten, and
exhausted. If they do, you’re going to have no energy, no self-esteem, no will
to be all you can be, and this isn't what relationships are about. If this
resonates with you, maybe it’s time to wave the white flag and move on to avoid
further damage.
Not all relationships are built to last, no matter how badly
you wish they would. Would you prefer to stay in a relationship that fills your
heart with pain or find a new relationship that fills your heart with love and
joy? When you learn to value yourself, you will attract people who know your
worth and deter people who want to chip away at your happiness.
It can be frightening initially to imagine changing,
growing, moving on or making conscious choices that are going to take you away
from all that you’ve ever known. But if your current choices are not serving
you, and you no longer want to live in a state of suffering, do you think you
can begin to accept that there’s another way to live that doesn’t create
further suffering?
Get out of your comfort zone. Don’t make safe and easy
choices because you’re afraid of what might happen. If you do, nothing will
ever change. If you keep doing what you've always done, you’ll keep getting
what you've always got ... nothing will ever change.
Life isn’t always easy. Some things will build you up and
some will tear you down. Your heart will expand, break and rebuild —
repeatedly. You are a work in progress; you're constantly learning, changing
and growing. Life’s difficulties and obstacles will provide you with an
opportunity to grow and learn and they will help you become clear on what you
do and don’t want.
In the end, you're responsible for finding and creating your
own happiness in this life. A beautiful life is out there waiting for you, but
first you must feel it on the inside.
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