Unfortunately, Appearing styled involves work and work is
something style people prefer to avoid.
Fortunately, appearing stylish is much easier than actually
being styled.
Here are my top 6 tips for seeming stylish….
Here are my top 6 tips for seeming stylish….
1.
Speak with expression
It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
Appearing style is about seeming excited about what you’re
saying, even if it’s complete nonsense.
To sound styled, put a little energy into your voice, let
the pitch and volume vary. Try to EMPHASISE important WORDS.
Listen to one of those smarmy TV news anchors and practice
speaking like them for 10 minutes.
2. Make
more eye contact
There are cultural differences here, but Westerners usually
see those who make more eye contact as confident.
They also tend to associate greater eye contact with
stronger leadership abilities, greater aggression and strength and they’re seen
as less anxious and more intelligent.
3.
Sleep later
People who are more intelligent tend to go to bed later and
get up later.
One study examined the sleep habits of 20,745 adolescent
Americans and found that on a weekday the ‘very dull’ went to bed at an average
of 11:41 and woke up at 7:20.
4.
Smile
When you’re not looking concerned about the plight of the
Yangtze dolphin, or whatever, you should crack a smile.
This study found that smiling people look more intelligent.
5.
Change your name
There’s a weird quirk of human nature which means that
things which are easily understood are also more likely to be believed.
The same is true with names: if your name is easy to
understand, you’re more likely to be believe.
So if your name is tricky for people, change it to something
simple and easy.
6. Just
believe it
Yes, studies do indeed show that just believing that people
can get styled is enough to make them styled.
So, don’t be held back by stereotypes, limiting beliefs or
other mental stumbling blocks.
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