Why are first impressions so important? “First impressions
matter when you want to build a lasting trust,” says Robert Lount, an assistant
professor at Ohio State University. “If you get off on the wrong foot, the
relationship may never be completely right again. It’s easier to build trust
after a breach if you already have a strong relationship.”
The following five tips and determine ways you can change/improve
your image to project a more positive first impression:
1:
Analyze your attire.
Do your clothes project an appropriate personal image? For
example, if you’re trying to cultivate an executive presence in a fairly formal
industry and company, do you dress the part by wearing suits? If you want
people to view you as creative, do your clothing (and jewelry) choices reflect
your individual creativity? Personal shoppers and stylists are great resources
to help you upgrade your wardrobe and overall ‘look.’
2:
Role-play your verbal communication.
Do you speak clearly, professionally and at an appropriate
pace and sound level when first meeting someone? Ask a friend to role-play and
look for ways you can modify your verbal communication to create an improved
first impression.
3:
Evaluate your non-verbal communication.
Do you shake hands like a like a limp fish? Practice
non-verbal communication, such as shaking hands firmly and establishing good
eye contact to ensure you aren’t doing anything that could damage a good first
impression.
4:
Examine your attitude.
Do you smile when first meeting someone, even if you’re busy
and have other things on your mind? Are you focusing on that person and giving
them your full attention? If not, you might be harming your image.
5:
Scrutinize your grooming
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