7 Childhood Issues that Affect our Later Relationships
1. Threats and fear of abandonment. These
can lead to jealousy and feelings of insecurity.
2. Lack of emotional nurturing. This
can lead to feelings of emotional deprivation – which can feel like a
bottomless pit to fill.
3. Growing up with feelings of entitlement. This
can lead to feeling as if you don’t have to live by the same rules as others –
as you are special, and a bit superior.
4. Being told that you’re inferior or
inadequate. This causes you feel like you’re never good
enough.
5. The demand to be perfect, and to
always get things right. This can leading to being driven – and incredibly high
standards.
6. Being betrayed by those you trusted – so
you won’t trust now, and you can’t get close to others, or let them get close
to you.
7. Being raised is a way that your needs were
denied, not allowed, disregarded, trivialised or ignored. This can
lead to a doormat type of personality where other people matter – and your
needs never count.
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