How to Stop a Rejection?
The ultimate source of pain is rejection. Actually love doesn’t
hurt the people, rejection hurts. Most of the time when you are rejected by a
man or he threatens you with a divorce or break up, you may not know what to
do. Such moments are characterized by confusion, emotional pain and you will
also be blaming one another for whatever is happening. This is not the time for
you to sit back and let nature take its course. There are ways of stopping that
rejection, break up or divorce.
To start with, do not show any sign of desperation for
example by begging him to come back. If you want him to come back, ignore him
the moment he shows signs of moving on. Ignoring him will make him have a
second thought. If possible, avoid him, do not make calls to him, and continue
running your errands normally. Not showing any sign of love or pain will make
him start spying on you and eventually he will come back.
Did you know that there are times when reverse psychology
works like magic? You can successfully use to avoid rejection, a break up or
divorce. It means that you must not show your man total love. Showing total
love is a way of attracting pain. Let the man know that you can do without him
around you. Let him not have the implication that you will die if he ever
leaves you. Of course, on the inside, the opposite is true. So behind the
scenes, do everything that you can to keep your man even if it means seeing a
psychic.
Breakups, divorce and rejection are things that can bring a
lot of pain into your love life. If you see like your man intends to move on,
seek for help immediately. You may act like you do not care but seek for help from
people dealing with marriage issues. They will provide you with great tips and
before you know it, tables will start being turned. The man will start hunting
you down and he will not even mind begging you so that you can come back. You
may even notice some level of jealousy.
The above advice is one that is easier said than doing it.
However, if you do the opposite, you will only be making the process of
divorce, rejection or break up faster. Men are not wired to the pain that the
women in their lives are undergoing. They feel manlier by making them feel more
pain.
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