How to Deal with Bad Days, Using Psychology
A1.
Don’t be hard and condemn yourself. Don’t beat yourself up for feeling miserable
and blah, or for feeling apathetic and low on energy. Be patient, understanding
and gentle with yourself. You’re no worse than others as we ALL have blah days
A2. Do
something rather that nothing. Do a few mindless tasks so you don’t just
waste the day – and you’re likely to feel better once those you’ve got those
out the way as they’re usually the things that you never want to do!
A3.
Only do as much as you have to. It’s going to take all your
strength just to make it through the day. Preserve your energy – and allow some
things to slide. You can always get round to them another day.
A4. Be
extra nice to yourself.
One of the best ways to fight a bleary day is to be nice to yourself and
to do the kinds of things that help to lift your mood and to brighten up your
day. For example, go out for a coffee, or have a bubble bath, turn up your
favourite music or call a bunch of friends.
Do all the kinds of things you know will help to boost your mood.
A5.
Remind yourself that it’s likely to pass. A bad day is just a day. It’s not the whole
of your life. It just means that right now you want to crawl back into bed. It
doesn’t mean your goals are wrong or that you won’t succeed in life! You’re
just having a bad day – and it’s likely to pass.
A6.
Recognise that it’s a feeling – and our moods go up and down. Shrug your shoulders, grit your teeth and
choose to make it through the day. Nothing’s really wrong – and there is
nothing wrong with you. It’s just the way you’re feeling – and our feelings
usually change.
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