Why you’re attracted to the Wrong Type
Here are the 8 reasons why you’re attracting to wrong
people
Do you always date the wrong type? Do you swear time and
time again that you’ll pick better next time, only to keep dating the wrong
guys/girls again? Here are 8 reasons why you might be choosing the wrong type:
A 1.
You like having a project. For some people, the idea of choosing
someone that needs saving is really appealing. You might get a thrill out of
dating someone with a lot of baggage or who has a lot of problems because you
want to be able to swoop in and help them turn their life around. This usually
backfires when you aren’t able to save them unless they want to help
themselves.
A2. You’re
bored. You might be looking for a little excitement in your
life and purposely choose the wrong type to add some excitement. Even though
the fights and stress that come from dating someone who is wrong for you don’t
seem like a good thing, some people enjoy the break from being stuck in a rut.
A3.
You like the drama. Some people thrive on drama and passion.
Sure, dating someone who isn’t right for you can mean a lot of arguing and fighting,
but some people secretly need that in their lives. The idea of dating someone
who they simply get along with can seem boring and totally unappealing to some.
A4.
You want to be a caregiver. If you always date people who need to
be helped and looked after, maybe you just thrive on playing the role of the
caregiver. You might just be looking for the sense of satisfaction you get from
taking care of someone who needs you.
A5. You
aren’t really that serious about settling down.
Maybe you’re not all that keen on meeting the right person and settling down
into a committed relationship so you date the wrong type. If you are always
with someone who is wrong for you, you’ll never have to worry about getting to
the point of staying together for a long time and settling down.
A6. You
think this is as good as it gets. You might believe that
good partners are scarce and that the types of guys/girls that you’re choosing
are as good as it gets. You might not feel that you can meet anyone else that
might be better for you.
A7. You
don’t believe that you deserve to be happy. If you have low
self-esteem you might be unknowingly sabotaging yourself by dating the wrong
types because you don’t believe that you deserve a happy and healthy
relationship. Dating the wrong people serves as a self-fulfilling prophecy that
just proves you right in your thinking.
A8. You
don’t notice good guys/girls. The nice, normal, kind
partners may be right under your nose but we often don’t notice them. They
don’t stand out as much as the jerks, the rebels and the drama queens, so we
often end up dating those who get more attention and we simply don’t notice
those who slip under the radar.
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