The Psychology of Selfish People
Here are the 10 Signs That Show He/She is Selfish.
Signs
That They Are Selfish
Is your relationship all about them? Does everything
revolve around them and their needs, or is it an equal partnership? Here are 10
signs that your boyfriend/girlfriend is selfish:
A1. You never hang out with your friends. Are you always
spending time with their friends or their family but never yours? If so, you
need to wonder why they seem to think that their friends are more important
than yours.
A2. Your dates are always around their schedule. If
everything needs to take place when it works for them and they never consider
what your schedule is, then you might wonder if they think that their life
takes priority over yours.
A3. You’ve met their parents but they haven’t met yours.
If you’re having Sunday dinners at their house every week and going to their
Grandma’s birthday party but they haven’t even met your folks it could be a
sign that they just don’t think that your family is that important.
A4. They don’t ask questions about you. You know all
about what’s going on in their life, what they’re doing at work, what their
summer plans are and what book they’re currently reading. But if they never
even ask about you, what you’re up to or what you’re thinking, chances are they
don’t care as much about you as they do about themselves.
A5. It’s all take and no give. Do you give, give, give
but never receive? If you’re always doing things for them, treating them and
surprising them with thoughtful gestures and you never receive any in return
then it sounds like they want to reap all the rewards of your relationship
without expecting to make any effort in return.
A6. They act without considering others. When making
decisions do they think about how other people will be affected? Do they act
without considering others and their feelings? If yes, they are truly only
thinking of themselves.
A7. They make everything about themselves. Does every
conversation wind up revolving around them? Do they turn every story into
something about them? Chances are they aren’t even listening to you talk before
trying to get the conversation back to themselves.
A8. Nothing is their fault. Do they accept blame or is it
always someone else’s fault? Selfish people think that they are never in the
wrong and are constantly assigning blame to anyone other than themselves.
A9. They are the expert on everything. They seem to know
everything about every subject and are the authority on everything including
you and what you feel, think and what’s best for you. If they don’t even bother
to ask your opinion because they assume they already know then you have a
selfish partner on your hands.
A10. They can’t compromise. Does every argument or
decision end with you giving in to what they want? That’s because selfish
people aren’t interested in compromising. It’s their way or the highway.
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