Here are the best tips for Dealing with Difficult People.
These tips will really amaze you because these tips are
tested practically and get 90% of result. Hope these tips will help you.
A1. Recognise that you’re never going to change that
person. They’re happy as they are – and like their personality. So if you try
to change their mind or to argue your case, they’ll just become defensive, and
fight back even more. You’re the stronger person if you can stay detached and
don’t need to argue, or to prove that you are right.
A2. You have the power to change your own response to
that person, if you’re being bullied, criticised or pushed around. You can
learn to be assertive and establish healthy boundaries that require you be
treated with respect and dignity.
A3. Avoid touchy topics that can stir strong emotions
such as politics, money or past hurts and grievances. Be alert to any hooks
designed to draw you in – and quickly change the subject to one that is more
neutral.
A4. Try and look for their positive, attractive
attributes. If you can focus on them, it will help you gain perspective.
A5. We all need acceptance, affirmation and support. Make
sure you have some friends who are kind and understanding, make you laugh and
smile, and are reliable and loyal. Those will help you stay detached, so you
are less affected by the games and tactics of dysfunctional people.
A6. Sometimes a bit of distance or sparse contact is the
answer. Know when you’ve had enough - and it is time to walk away.
A7. Be realistic, too, and don’t ignore the negatives.
Don’t expect a mean person to be nice to you, or look for warmth and friendship
from a jealous individual.
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