People Behaviors in Relationships:
Here are some Relationship
Games
So many of us take these games for granted that we don’t
even recognize them for what they are.
1.
The Pretender: This
happens at the start of many relationships. Whether from nervousness or from
insecurity, this is the person who tries to be someone else to gain the
attention of the other person.
2.
The Guilt Trip: Some people are totally committed to making
you feel terrible about a past mistake. There’s no way you can ever put things
right.
3.
Payback: “You hurt me, so I’ll hurt you.” This is a vicious game
that can go on for years.
4.
Trick or Treat: Examples of this include… Trying to make
your partner jealous so that they see how much you’re loved by others … or …
Telling three different people that each is your best friend”.
5.
The Little White Lie: Examples include … “oh, it’s not that
important; it doesn’t really matter.” <sigh> … or … “What she doesn’t
know won’t hurt her.”
6.
The Name Game: This is basically being dishonest. For
example, “It’s not really cheating because I never said I was going steady.”
Oh, really.
7. A
relationship with a price-tag. This is where, for
example, a girl thinks she has to have sex to be loved.
8.
The Rumour Mill: For example, “Did you know that Jordan told
me that Alana told her that Brad told Chris that…” Nothing is more damaging to
relationships than this.
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