How to know if you’re in the Right Relationship
1. You feel secure with the person and are happy to
commit to a relationship with them.
2. You don’t feel you need to hide anything from them.
3. You respect them, and they respect you. Neither feels
superior to the other.
4. You are happy for their successes. You don’t feel as
if you’re in competition with them, or that their successes make you feel
inferior.
5. You don’t challenge, criticise or attack each other in
front of others.
6. Neither of you is looking to the other to have unmet
needs met, or to make up for personal feelings of lack or inadequacy.
7. You are happy for your partner to spend time with
their family and other friends.
8. You don’t have
a secret back up plan (“If he cheats, or leaves, me then I’ll … “If he does X
then I’ll do Y”)
9. You inspire each other to be better people.
10. You know that they’ll always be there for you.
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