How
to identify jealousy people
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One of the horrible feeling on others is the jealousy
people because it kills the people and it is extremely dangerous
I am sure you heard of one of those horrible college
shooting accidents were one sequent suddenly brought out a pistol and started
shooting everyone randomly.
People who investigated these events found out something
very surprising. The shooting was not by any means random and what's more
surprising is that many shooters ignored those used to bully them and aimed for
those there were jealous of!
In other words jealousy can kill. While college shooting
is a rare phenomenon (thanks God) still you should be very cautious when
dealing with jealous friends because they will do their best to see you unhappy
provided that their values don't stop them.
In other words jealous people will harm you as much as
their values allow them!
How
to identify jealous people
so is there a way to find out jealous people?
Fortunately there is a way, here is how:
1)
Criticism accompanied with negative energy: Your best friend
can criticize you because he is concerned about you but in some cases this
criticism comes accompanied with negative energy in such a way that shows the
presence of jealousy. A real friend will usually criticize you in private while
a jealous person will do it in public. I am sure you had that friend who once
criticized you on your facebook wall in front of everybody! Most probably that
person is jealous of you so take care.
2)
Bad mouthing you: Gossiping is one of the most powerful signs
of jealousy. The person who is jealous of you will always want to put you down
in front of others. For many reasons he might not be able to do this in front
of you and as a result he might do it in your absence.
3)
Putting you down: There is a difference between criticizing
someone and putting him down. A jealous person will always try to devalue you
in order to feel good about himself and as a result you will find him putting
you down all the time.
4)
Won't congratulate you: This is also one of the most powerful
signs that shows that someone is jealous. A jealous person will find it very
hard to congratulate you on your success. He will even become unhappy when he
finds you happy or successful. Do you want to find out who your true friends
are? announce good news in front of the person whom you want to test and see
his reaction.
Avoid
being too brilliant
Yes you read it right. If you are too brilliant in one
life area then you will attract jealous people. If you have been reading
Psychtronics for a while then you might already know that i got and award for
the best article publisher.
The same day i got award i announced it on Facebook only
to discover later that i made the largest number of enemies i ever had on a
single day.
After that i learned the lesson. Appear too brilliant in
front of the wrong person and you are done for.
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