Dos and Don’ts in Friendship, According to
NeuroPsychology
Skills to make a strong friend ship
Basic Friendship skills
here is the best basic friendship skill which deals with the strong relationship.
Dos
1. Talk about things that interest others, and not just
things that interest you.
2. Share the conversation. Don’t talk over others,
interrupt others, or seek to be the centre of attention.
3. Be interested in what other people have to say. Ask
open questions, and try to find out more.
4. Notice when people do well, and make the effort to
praise them for it. Try to be an affirming, and encouraging, friend.
5. Be respectful, considerate and polite. Be sensitive to
the feelings of others.
6. Think before you speak. (Sometimes it’s better to say
nothing than to speak your mind and upset or offend).
7. Learn how to
ask for what you want and need in a non-threatening, and non-defensive way. Don’t
react; and don’t pick needless arguments.
8. Try to understand the perspective of others – and
don’t just assume that you are right and they are wrong.
9. Look out for others – and be a trusted friend
10. Back off, don’t dominate, and give your friends some
space.
Don’ts
1. Don’t brag about what you’ve done or what you’ve got.
2. Don’t put others down.
3. Don’t judge and stereotype people.
4. Don’t take over the conversation. Let others tell
their jokes, and have their say.
5. Don’t try to control other people, or to make them do
what you want them to do.
6. Don’t talk, or gossip, about others.
7. Don’t make jokes at others’ expense.
8. Don’t demand perfection – allow your friends to be
human, and to sometimes make mistakes.
9. Don’t be sensitive and quick to take offense.
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