Psychology of People who like Depressed Music
Psychology of Depressed Music lovers
If you Like Depressed Music, you Must read it,
Personality
of Depressed Music Lovers
Why do some people like depressing music?
Why would someone listen to music that explains how bad
life is??
Before you can understand why some people like depressing
music you need to understand few concepts related to music psychology.
Lets suppose that you believed that a certain company
provides poor services because you got bad treatment yourself, what will you
feel like if i came and told you that this company has really poor service.
Certainly you will like what i said because it matched
your belief system, supported your opinion, reduced your guilt for saying bad
things about them and made you feel that you are not alone.
So what does this has to do with liking depressing music?
This
is why some people like depressing music
People like to be supported and to feel that they are
right. Whenever someone builds certain beliefs or opinions about life he will
like whomever supports his beliefs.
Now when a person becomes depressed he will usually need
someone to reassure him that he has the right to be depressed and that's what
depressing music does exactly.
Depressing music reminds the person of his own beliefs
about life, reassure him that he is right and make him feel that he is not the
only one who thinks that way. That's why depressed people like depressing
music.
Its the same reason why people who are in love like
romantic music and those who are happy like to watch funny videos.
We tend to like music when it resonates with our beliefs
and if we became depressed then depressing music will certainly resonate with
our thoughts.
Why
do some non depressed people like depressing music?
So if that's true then how come some people who are not
depressed still like depressing music? People like depressing music because
they feel good about themselves when they discover that they are not suffering
as much as the singer is suffering.
Its the same reason people who have lots of problems in
their lives love horror movies. Because they find out that others suffer more
than them (in the movie) they feel quite good about themselves.
On the other hand depressing music might be liked by some
people because they resonate with some of their beliefs. For example if you
think that life is unfair then any song that repeats that belief is directly or
indirectly will appeal to you.
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