Have you got avoided by your girlfriend/boy friend and
you can’t able to forget them. No problem here some techniques to forget them
and to start a new life.
Forgetting someone who broke your heart is not hard if
you understood the fact that:
The methods you are going to use to forget that person
are going to have some differences compared to the methods that should have
been used to forget someone who didn’t break your heart.
The main reason forgetting someone who broke your heart
requires additional steps is that there are other factors involved such as your
hurt Ego, the impact on your self esteem and the anger you have towards that
person.
Sometimes a person may suffer for long periods of time
after a certain relationship because of his hurt Ego and not because of the
love he had towards the person who broke his heart!! This means that you can
get over someone completely yet still suffer because of the bad feelings
associated with the way you were dumped or rejected.
The
additional steps required to forget someone who broke your heart
The additional steps that are required to forget someone
who broke your heart is to heal your hurt ego and fix your self esteem if it
was affected.
Healing
your Ego: Healing your Ego shouldn’t be done by revenge or by
hating the person because both solutions will let you become a resentful
person. Healing your Ego can be done by showing that person that he has a lost
a treasure (which is you). This isn’t a quick solution but it’s the one that
will surely work. Direct all the anger you have towards motivating yourself to
become better and better, sooner or later your news will reach the person who
broke your heart and he will realize his loss.
Fixing
your self esteem: Sometimes people fail to recover from
breakups because of self esteem issues and not because of loving the person who
dumped them!!
After all if gaining self esteem was one of your goals
when you first started the relationship then only building your self esteem
will let you get over this relationship . In short you are not in need of the
person, you just need to feel worthy
How
to forget any person in few days
I have tackled this subject many times on Psychtronics so
in order not to be repeating myself I will only give very brief summary of the
methods you should use to forget someone, in case you want to know more just
follow the links at the bottom of this page and you will get over any person
easily:
Get
rid of the old memories: Burn the pictures, eat the chocolates,
delete the music and stop going to the places that remind you of him.
He
was not the one: because there is no such a thing as the
one, there are lots of potential partners and you only met one of them. The
media fed you with this false belief until you grew up believing that there is
something called the one.
Stop
thinking about him: I know its hard but instead of thinking
100% of the time, make it only 10% then 5% then 0% then stop doing it!!
Don’t
listen to sad, romantic or depressing music: Stop listening to
music that reminds you of him, that feeds you with false beliefs about
relationships and that make it hard for you to get over him
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