In this weird world maximum of people try to discourage
you. Ignore those who say that they never feel down. We’re surrounded by
messages on positive thinking because so many battle with discouragement. So
what can you do when you’re living in a cloud, and everything seems pointless
and negative?
1. Ask someone you respect if they ever feel discouraged.
You’ll be surprised by how common, and how normal, it is.
2. Acknowledge how you feel – as it’s better to be real
than to stuff your emotions and pretend those things are fine.
3. Encourage someone else … and see the difference it
makes. It will not just help them, you will feel better, too.
4. Get some exercise. Exercise releases the “feel good”
hormones (endorphins) so you’ll feel less depressed, and you’ll have more
energy.
5. Set some short term goals, and then work to reach
those goals. There’s nothing like success for improving how we feel.
6. Focus on the things that you naturally do well – to
remind yourself, again, of your talents and your strengths.
7. Talk to a friend. There nothing worse than feeling
isolated and alone. But spending time with others can raise your self-esteem.
Also, it puts things in perspective and your problems start to shrink.
8. Reward yourself, or do something you enjoy. You
deserve to be nurtured, affirmed and treated well. When you’re battling your
feelings you need that extra boost.
9. Journal how you feel. It’s highly therapeutic to
express what’s on your mind.
10. Take a break and rest. Feeling worn out and
discouraged can sap your energy. You need to stop, be refreshed, and have your
energy restored.
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