These are the amazing techniques to build your self
confidence. After reading hundreds of articles about self confidence i got
these.
What's
the secret formula for building self confidence
Do you know why most people fail to build self
confidence?
Its not because they don't try hard and its not because
they don't read about self confidence but it happens because they read the
wrong tips then try hard to make them work.
When it comes to building self confidence the internet is
full of nonsense and incorrect information and that's why so many people never
manage to increase their confidence. In this post i will tell you about five
very effective confidence building tips that really work.
A1)
Please your subconscious mind: If the whole world likes
your shirt but you dislike it you won't feel confident around people. If you
love your shirt but no one likes it then you will feel confident. In order to
become super confident you need to impress your own subconscious mind and not
anybody else
A2)
Know the definition of confident according to your own point of view: If
your friends believe that the ability to speak in public is real self
confidence while you believe that the ability to talk to the opposite sex is
the real self confidence then most likely you wont gain anything if you wasted
your time learning public speaking. Many people try to become confident by
following the guideline's others set and that's why they never feel confident.
find out what's your own definition of self confidence then try to make your
reality, only then you will feel really confident.
A3)
See the real world: In the Solid Self confidence program i said
that all people have flaws that they dislike even celebrities. Once you start
to look at other people that way you will quickly learn that you are not the
only one who have insecurities out there. The most confident person isn't the
one who doesn't have insecurities but he is the one who realizes that everyone
has them
A4)
Develop new skills: The more skills you develop the more
confident you will become provided that those skills are related to the life
problems you are currently facing. Learning speed reading in order to study for
college will make you more confident than learning Golf during that same
college year. Learn the skills that can help you solve your most important
problems (see also Building self confidence).
A5) Don't be desperate: Reject those who reject you,
ignore those who ignore you and cut the contact with those you disrespect you.
Desperation is a great enemy for self confidence. Unless you stop running after
those who ignore you you wont feel truly confident.
It
takes time
No you can't build confidence overnight nor you can use
hypnosis to become super confident right away but instead you need to be
patient until the practical plan you are following works.
With each new step you take you will become more
confident and as long as you don't stop you will end up becoming really
confident.
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