How to Behave in your First Date

Sunday 10 June 2012 0 comments

How to Behave in your First Date
After some survey here are some suggestions to boys for their date with their girl friend. Be fully prepared for your first date because first impression is the best impression. Follow the below techniques (A1-A8) carefully.


A1:  First thing you have to do is finding best location for your first date. Take her somewhere you feel comfortable and somewhere you can easily afford. You don’t want to be nervous all through the date that you might get stuck with a crippling bill. If price is a big concern for you, you can organize your own date in a public place (like a park or even at your own home) and prepare the meal yourself. If you can’t cook, takeaways are fine, but serve it on plates at the table and try to make an effort. Don’t choose movie for the first date.

A2:  Manner’s is very important here. First off, if you are going to dinner, read the Rules for Fine Dining list, try to remember at least one or two. If you are dining out for your first date, hold the chair out for your date and help her sit. Don’t be late to the dinner.

A3:  And the pretty next thing is give respect to her. That means not to expect anything in return! A date is not payment for future pleasures; it is a way to get to know someone to gauge compatibility. This rule also means you should not try to get your date drunk, drugged, or compromised in any other way. At the end of the date you can offer a small kiss. Be careful while you offering.

A4:  That means not to expect anything in return! A date is not payment for future pleasures; it is a way to get to know someone to gauge compatibility. This rule also means you should not try to get your date drunk, drugged, or compromised in any other way. At the end of the date you can offer a small kiss – offer nothing else and expecting nothing back.

A5:  Be confident and take charge of the evening. This does not mean you should drag your date around by the arm; be firm with your suggestions and be confident that you will have a good date and make a good impression – remember; if you were a total loser you wouldn’t be on the date in the first place.

A6:   Dress appropriately for your date, and you should probably let your date know where you are planning to take her in advance so she can also dress appropriately. If you are going to the beach for a seaside dinner, dress nicely (no jeans) but don’t overdress. Similarly, if you are going to a fancy restaurant, wear a shirt and tie. Make sure your shoes are clean and polished if necessary.

A7:    Slowly start conversation. Ask questions about her and Listen to the replies too and don’t just look for an opening to start discussing yourself. Do not talk about your job for more than a few minutes – while our own work is a fascinating subject for us, it is seldom fascinating for someone else. Be sure to compliment your date – but don’t go overboard – you will seem desperate. Do not ever talk about dates you have had with other people or your ex-girlfriends.

A8:   Pay for everything. Don’t mention splitting the bill. If the lady suggests paying part of the bill do not accept the offer. If she insists, allow her to pay what she wishes (this is not just a rule for dating). You will be the best judge at the time whether your date is only insisting because she feels obliged.

You can almost impress your girlfriend 80% by following the above rules...

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